It was so wonderful to see and meet (again) all of you who could join us last week. Thank you so much for your wonderful questions, willingness to be open, to share, and learn! I wanted to pass on some of the resources I mentioned or you asked about in our time together. Feel free to reach out if you have any other questions.
Books
- Anal Sex Resources: How to Bottom Like a Porn Star (for gay men) or Anal Pleasure & Health
- Improving sex for folx w/ vulvas and their partners: Come As You Are
Sexual Lube Guide from Smitten Kitten and more info
überlube – one of my favorite lubes for all kinds of sex
What if the world were actually sex positive? – Amber Rose’s Walk of No Shame
Safer sex barriers (including dental dams) – Also, this is a wonderful YouTube channel!
UPDATE: Here is a new queer-friendly Power & Control Wheel
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